FERNDALE, Ark. – This is the most wonderful time of the year, but for some it can be the most difficult.
An Arkansas mother who walked her own path with grief turned her grief into a book to help others heal.
“I had no answers for my children. I didn’t know how to explain to them why bad things happen in the world, ”said Kerry Tittle.
There is no easy explanation, especially when you’ve lost so much.
“There were a lot of difficult times, a lot of dark times,” Tittle said.
On April 27, 2014, Kerry Tittle’s husband, Rob, and two of their daughters, Rebekah and Tori, were killed when a tornado destroyed their home in Ferndale. Kerry Tittle, along with her seven other children, including her then 8-month-old son, survived.
“It was just a daily struggle to try to keep my eyes focused on the faith,” Tittle said.
Over the past few years, Tittle has focused on his family and found purpose in pain.
“I tripped every day. I made mistakes. I never want anyone to think we worked perfectly because it was anything but pretty, ”Tittle said.
Not just for her, but for her children.
“I needed to give them hope,” Tittle said.
She did it in the form of a children’s book. “The Nugget and the Refiner,” written by Kerry Tittle, helps children understand why bad things happen to good people.
“This is a small piece of ore that has a very bad disposition. It shows the process he has to go through to become something beautiful, a masterpiece, ”Tittle said.
It’s a process Tittle and his family understand well.
“They saw good things coming out of it. It’s tough, but they saw it change the lives of people they didn’t even know, ”Tittle said.
The recent devastation in northeast Arkansas and Kentucky, she admits, is a painful reminder.
“It can be really crude when we have storms, absolutely,” Tittle said.
However, she said it was also important, reminding us that even in the darkest places there is light in front of us.
“You don’t have to stay there and you’re not going to stay there. It’s just a refining process, ”Tittle said.
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